Ur ability to relate well in ur relationship would determine how happy you'll be!
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Getting into a romantic relationship with your best friend can be both rewarding and scary. On one hand, you have the opportunity for a level of understanding and intimacy, and on the other you may fear losing the friendship. Luckily, it is possible to balance friendship and romance
Tonight on the show, we will be shearing together… how to Handle Going from Being Best Friends to a having a Relationship
1. Talk to your partner about your concerns. Your partner likely shares them-- after all, you're best friends! Phrase it in a positive way: "You've always been such a wonderful friend, and I want to make sure we maintain that level of trust now that we're a couple."
2. Make or maintain other close friendships . Depending on your partner for everything, including the friend capacity, can smother a relationship. It's good for both of you to have other, separate close friends.
3. Cultivate your own interests to make sure you don't smother each other with time together. Explain to your partner that you will always need some alone time and they should not take it personal.
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Tonight on the show, we will be shearing together… how to Handle Going from Being Best Friends to a having a Relationship
4. Maintain routines from your friendship . For example, if you two always met for lunch on Fridays to catch up on your week, keep doing so. Stay relaxed and playful.
5. Trust yourself if you have decided this is what you want.
Understand that most good solid relationships/marriages are couples that are very close friends. Your partner will look after and deeply care for you and vice versa. This will increase your chances of a romantic relationship
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Fall In Love with Your Best Friend
The best romantic partner is also your best friend: someone you can talk to about anything, someone you can trust entirely, and someone whose company you will enjoy for every second of your relationship. Most people already have such a person in their lives - their best friend! But if you want to take that a level further, especially if your best friend is already in love with you, it may be worth taking the chance
1.Talk to your best friend both about your current relationship and about the possibilities, and you may find out that you're both interested in each other.
2.Make a list of all of your best friend's qualities that you really like and respect. Now, make a list of all the things you want from a romantic relationship. Finally, grab a highlighter and highlight the qualities that match: it may surprise you!
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3.Use your imagination: think what it would be like to be closer to your best friend, and it may give you a hint to how much you would enjoy it.
4.Set a romantic mood and do something together as friends, such as going to the beach, doing a dance, or having a candlelight dinner alone. You may find that new feelings surface when the atmosphere is right.
5.Share your dreams together. Often, talking together about the future makes you realize that you want to spend the future together.
6.Take your time. Falling in love is not a quick process, and you should make sure that you are fully ready to take your relationship with your best friend further before you do so. Tell him you love him. Good luck
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Tips
Often, the things you do together may not be associated with being sweet or romantic (even though in a romantic relationship they would be). When taking your relationship to the next level, don't do the things you've always done and go the places you've always gone and assume that the association will change: you will need to try different, more romantic things.
Warning
If you're in love with your best friend and want to take your relationship further, remember to be respectful of their feelings and not pressure. It takes two to make a relationship work.
If your best friend isn't in love with you too, then you should just act like you always have around them. Don't try to change yourself to make them love you back. If they're your best friend for you being yourself, then chances are that they'd love you for the same thing, not for being a completely different person.
This really works, so be careful intentionally falling in love with your friend. Decide if this is really what you want first.
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Differentiate Between Love and Friendship
So you think that you love someone, but maybe you're just really good friends. How can you tell the difference between love and friendship? Read on
1. True friendship is when even during the biggest fights, you'll still be friends. When you won't ignore each other over some stupid arguement. You'll think that you hate each other, but really find yourself knowing that life isn't the same without a great friend to be by your side.
2. Love is basically the same thing. Even when you two fight, you'll sit alone and wish that they were by your side. You'll miss them more than words can say. You'll feel like even if you have nothing, you'd still have a reason to live if they were with you.
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Realize that true friendship is when you can do anything together with the other person. You feel comfortable around them. You can talk to them and tell them secrets that you otherwise wouldn't tell people.
3.Realize that love is when you have a problem, you can go to your partner and talk to them about it. You know that they will listen to you and give you advice back. That they won't say "I don't have time right now." or "I don't care about your stupid problems!" They will care about you and what you have to say.
4.Understand that true friendship is when someone makes fun of you or bullies you, your friend will stand up for you and tell that person off. Your friend will tell you that the person was a moron and that they had no clue what they were talking about.
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5. Understand that love is when someone makes fun of you or bullies you, your partner will stand up for you, then tell you that the bully was wrong. That there's nothing wrong with you. That you're as perfect as a human can possibly be.
6. Learn that true friendship is when your friend moves away, you know that you two will find reasons to keep in touch, no matter how expensive or crazy. You won't let the friendship slip away.
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7. Learn that love is when your partner and you are rarely apart. You don't have to be with them every second of the day, but when you need to be apart, you'll stay in touch. If your partner gets a job offer in another country, they'll either turn it down or take you with them.
8.Note that true friendship is when someone flirts with your friend, you feel happy and excited for them.
9.Note that love is when someone flirts with the one you love, you feel jealous, but then realize that your lover loves you and only you.
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10.Understand that true friendship is when you know that your friend would never ask you to change, because you're amazing just the way you are.
11.Understand that love is when you know that your partner would never ask you to change, because they know that who you are makes you YOU. They respect that and love you because you're you. They accept your flaws.
12.Believe that true friendship is when your friend would never pressure you to do anything you don't want to do.
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13.Believe that love is when your partner would never pressure you to do anything you don't want to do unless absolutely necessary. They're willing to push you a little bit so that you can reach your full potential, but they know when you really don't want to do something. They can sense it in you. And when they do, they'll back down.
14.Realize that true friendship is when something comes up that's great for you, but not so good for them, they'll tell you to do it so that you can become a better person.
15.Realize that love is when something comes up that's great for you but not for them, they'll tell you to go for it. They'll tell you to ignore everyone else's needs and focus on you and what matters to you. They'll help you make tough decisions.
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16.Understand that true friendship is when you feel like you've met the brother/sister that you've never had.
17.Understand that love is when you feel like you found another part of yourself. Like you're complete.
18.Accept that both true friendship and love are similar in the way that for either one, you'll do anything for the person in question. True Friendship and Love are also similar because when the person in question is happy, whether they're a true friend or your lover, you feel happy too.
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Tips
Since they are so similar, you really have to watch yourself and listen to your feelings and your heart.
Most relationships start by two people being great friends.
True friends and a true love are both really hard to find.
For someone to be your True Love, they must also be a True Friend, but taken to the next level.
It's very possible for True Friendship to eventually turn into True Love.
Warnings
You may get heartbroken if the other person only likes you as a friend.
It may be tough but you will make it through without them being your lover
**
Getting into a romantic relationship with your best friend can be both rewarding and scary. On one hand, you have the opportunity for a level of understanding and intimacy, and on the other you may fear losing the friendship. Luckily, it is possible to balance friendship and romance
Tonight on the show, we will be shearing together… how to Handle Going from Being Best Friends to a having a Relationship
1. Talk to your partner about your concerns. Your partner likely shares them-- after all, you're best friends! Phrase it in a positive way: "You've always been such a wonderful friend, and I want to make sure we maintain that level of trust now that we're a couple."
2. Make or maintain other close friendships . Depending on your partner for everything, including the friend capacity, can smother a relationship. It's good for both of you to have other, separate close friends.
3. Cultivate your own interests to make sure you don't smother each other with time together. Explain to your partner that you will always need some alone time and they should not take it personal.
**
Tonight on the show, we will be shearing together… how to Handle Going from Being Best Friends to a having a Relationship
4. Maintain routines from your friendship . For example, if you two always met for lunch on Fridays to catch up on your week, keep doing so. Stay relaxed and playful.
5. Trust yourself if you have decided this is what you want.
Understand that most good solid relationships/marriages are couples that are very close friends. Your partner will look after and deeply care for you and vice versa. This will increase your chances of a romantic relationship
**
Fall In Love with Your Best Friend
The best romantic partner is also your best friend: someone you can talk to about anything, someone you can trust entirely, and someone whose company you will enjoy for every second of your relationship. Most people already have such a person in their lives - their best friend! But if you want to take that a level further, especially if your best friend is already in love with you, it may be worth taking the chance
1.Talk to your best friend both about your current relationship and about the possibilities, and you may find out that you're both interested in each other.
2.Make a list of all of your best friend's qualities that you really like and respect. Now, make a list of all the things you want from a romantic relationship. Finally, grab a highlighter and highlight the qualities that match: it may surprise you!
**
3.Use your imagination: think what it would be like to be closer to your best friend, and it may give you a hint to how much you would enjoy it.
4.Set a romantic mood and do something together as friends, such as going to the beach, doing a dance, or having a candlelight dinner alone. You may find that new feelings surface when the atmosphere is right.
5.Share your dreams together. Often, talking together about the future makes you realize that you want to spend the future together.
6.Take your time. Falling in love is not a quick process, and you should make sure that you are fully ready to take your relationship with your best friend further before you do so. Tell him you love him. Good luck
**
Tips
Often, the things you do together may not be associated with being sweet or romantic (even though in a romantic relationship they would be). When taking your relationship to the next level, don't do the things you've always done and go the places you've always gone and assume that the association will change: you will need to try different, more romantic things.
Warning
If you're in love with your best friend and want to take your relationship further, remember to be respectful of their feelings and not pressure. It takes two to make a relationship work.
If your best friend isn't in love with you too, then you should just act like you always have around them. Don't try to change yourself to make them love you back. If they're your best friend for you being yourself, then chances are that they'd love you for the same thing, not for being a completely different person.
This really works, so be careful intentionally falling in love with your friend. Decide if this is really what you want first.
**
Differentiate Between Love and Friendship
So you think that you love someone, but maybe you're just really good friends. How can you tell the difference between love and friendship? Read on
1. True friendship is when even during the biggest fights, you'll still be friends. When you won't ignore each other over some stupid arguement. You'll think that you hate each other, but really find yourself knowing that life isn't the same without a great friend to be by your side.
2. Love is basically the same thing. Even when you two fight, you'll sit alone and wish that they were by your side. You'll miss them more than words can say. You'll feel like even if you have nothing, you'd still have a reason to live if they were with you.
**
Realize that true friendship is when you can do anything together with the other person. You feel comfortable around them. You can talk to them and tell them secrets that you otherwise wouldn't tell people.
3.Realize that love is when you have a problem, you can go to your partner and talk to them about it. You know that they will listen to you and give you advice back. That they won't say "I don't have time right now." or "I don't care about your stupid problems!" They will care about you and what you have to say.
4.Understand that true friendship is when someone makes fun of you or bullies you, your friend will stand up for you and tell that person off. Your friend will tell you that the person was a moron and that they had no clue what they were talking about.
**
5. Understand that love is when someone makes fun of you or bullies you, your partner will stand up for you, then tell you that the bully was wrong. That there's nothing wrong with you. That you're as perfect as a human can possibly be.
6. Learn that true friendship is when your friend moves away, you know that you two will find reasons to keep in touch, no matter how expensive or crazy. You won't let the friendship slip away.
**
7. Learn that love is when your partner and you are rarely apart. You don't have to be with them every second of the day, but when you need to be apart, you'll stay in touch. If your partner gets a job offer in another country, they'll either turn it down or take you with them.
8.Note that true friendship is when someone flirts with your friend, you feel happy and excited for them.
9.Note that love is when someone flirts with the one you love, you feel jealous, but then realize that your lover loves you and only you.
**
10.Understand that true friendship is when you know that your friend would never ask you to change, because you're amazing just the way you are.
11.Understand that love is when you know that your partner would never ask you to change, because they know that who you are makes you YOU. They respect that and love you because you're you. They accept your flaws.
12.Believe that true friendship is when your friend would never pressure you to do anything you don't want to do.
**
13.Believe that love is when your partner would never pressure you to do anything you don't want to do unless absolutely necessary. They're willing to push you a little bit so that you can reach your full potential, but they know when you really don't want to do something. They can sense it in you. And when they do, they'll back down.
14.Realize that true friendship is when something comes up that's great for you, but not so good for them, they'll tell you to do it so that you can become a better person.
15.Realize that love is when something comes up that's great for you but not for them, they'll tell you to go for it. They'll tell you to ignore everyone else's needs and focus on you and what matters to you. They'll help you make tough decisions.
**
16.Understand that true friendship is when you feel like you've met the brother/sister that you've never had.
17.Understand that love is when you feel like you found another part of yourself. Like you're complete.
18.Accept that both true friendship and love are similar in the way that for either one, you'll do anything for the person in question. True Friendship and Love are also similar because when the person in question is happy, whether they're a true friend or your lover, you feel happy too.
**
Tips
Since they are so similar, you really have to watch yourself and listen to your feelings and your heart.
Most relationships start by two people being great friends.
True friends and a true love are both really hard to find.
For someone to be your True Love, they must also be a True Friend, but taken to the next level.
It's very possible for True Friendship to eventually turn into True Love.
Warnings
You may get heartbroken if the other person only likes you as a friend.
It may be tough but you will make it through without them being your lover
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